- Common mistakes young people make
- Common mistakes old people or adults make
Firstly Nguyen, thanks for asking this amazing questions!
Second, replace the word “Mistake” with “Traps” – read down below why. So start with these:
- Holding back who you are
- Not making mistakes
If you hold back who you are, the life you end up with will be empty inside. It’s only through expressing who you are and sharing it with the world when you’ll find happiness, not only monetary gain but peace with-in you.
People will also attempt to NOT make mistakes ever, trying to be perfect all the time without understanding that
Perfection Is In The Eye Of The Beholder
By not allowing yourself to define perfection as an objective manner – meaning a pure concrete definition of perfection with no real world experience – you develop what’s called “mature intrinsic growth”. Getting better at something or achieving goals is not about making all of the right decisions, it’s making your decisions right with you.
If I Quit…It May Last Forever
You will experience pain Nguyen, that’s how life is and there’s no getting around that. The question is, what are you willing to do once you experience pain? Are you willing to be brave enough to push through the pain or will you surrender? Are you willing to go a few months or years without seeing little or any success because you believe deep down inside it’s possible?
What are you willing to sacrifice in order for the pain to be only temporary because in the end you know all of your hard work will pay off in the end? These are life changing questions because they tackle the very fabric of your being, they question who you are and what you want to see change in your life.
So I invite you, to not:
- Hold back your identity
- Think you’ll never make mistakes
Do those 3 things and you’ll avoid the common traps we all fall into, there’s nothing wrong with making mistakes. It’s through your mistakes and failures when you grow, without them your mind will continue to defeat your spirit because only your head-brain feeds off of perfection and never making mistakes.
Your Heart (spirit) is where all of your answers truly live.
Keep growing stronger Nguyen,